Journal
On love, honesty, and the questions we ask.
Notes from the people building Veram: what research says about relationships, what your AI can and can’t know about you, and how we decide what to build. New every other week.
- OCTOBER 21, 2026 · 6 MIN READHow to use ChatGPT to write your dating profile, honestlyDon’t ask it to polish a bio. Ask what it already knows about you, and how it knows. The prompt we use, and what to cross out in the answer.
- OCTOBER 16, 2026 · 4 MIN READWhen your AI takes your side in a relationship questionA recent study shows AI assistants agree with us most when we ask about relationships. What that means, and how to ask for an honest answer instead.
- OCTOBER 3, 2026 · 4 MIN READWhy Veram exists: the questions you ask at 11pmDating profiles ask you to sum yourself up in a few lines. Your AI has heard the questions you ask at 11pm. Why I built Veram, and where it can be wrong.
- OCTOBER 3, 2026 · 7 MIN READWhat actually predicts a good relationship, and what doesn’tWhat relationship research says predicts a good relationship, what it says doesn’t, and how that shaped the questions Veram asks.